Now I only get the occasional email from her, wondering how I've been and telling me she misses me. They are already in a new (rebound) relationship. If your ex is already in a new relationship , don’t let that confuse you. It’s a very simple lesson, yet incredibly difficult to follow if you’re in a codependent relationship. There is no reason to get someone back after they decide to leave you. Ignoring a girl will simply irritate her. If a woman leaves you, you ignore her to move on, not to get her back. 20 DEFINITE SIGNS YOUR EX WILL EVENTUALLY COME BACK: 1. I will ignore this message, I’ll talk to alll of my other friends and other women, but I won’t send anything to her, you know, because I’m so infatuated and in love with her. Ignoring an ex to get them back can be done in two ways; Either you cut all contact because you want to catch them off guard, or you alternate between intense moments and No contact. If you get these signs from her, you must move quickly. Want her to come back literally pleading? If you ignore a woman (who knows her value) she will ignore you right back. I loved dating her, I love being in a relationship with her, plus she’s so attractive. There are some dating coaches out there who advise people to ignore their ex (or ignore a text from an ex) as a supposed strategy to get them back. This doesn’t necessarily mean that they’re in a serious relationship, that they got over you, and now they have found someone else with whom they are happier. POB 2014-12-20 09:12:53 @GApeach " If you ignore a woman (who knows her value) she will ignore you right back." As a relationship expert, I suggest you start with the second option and if you don’t see an improvement, move on to the second one and employ full Radio Silence. follow the age old no contact rule whether you dump her or she dumps you. Your behavior actually makes women go crazy because they feel trapped. She’ll conclude that you don’t deserve her and she’ll go out and find someone who does. I drove to see her in June to show her I was ready to get serious and move to her town and she wouldn’t even come see me cuz she said it would be too hard. After you find her, begin by looking for body language signs, such as eye contact, a smile, hair touching, etc. So if you plan on ignoring a girl you like, you’ll just end up losing her instead of winning her over. We know when … If you are wondering if you should ignore your ex when they reach out while you are in no contact, be sure to watch the video above all the way through and then read this important article below to the end.. I just love love love love her! I contacted her twice over the next 2 months to ask her how I can pursue her at this point and she said both times no communication but she said she still had feelings for me. #3 We’re not easily fooled. Let her come back to you on her own terms. they will literally always come back if you cut contact 100% after breaking up ... if you ignore her attempts to meet with her, she will try to call you for purely sex So, I’m going to try and forget about her. I ended up telling her not to come over, and met her at a restaurant instead for a much more neutral, platonic meeting. ... You need to basically ignore her from here on out. She kept trying to find an excuse to get over to my place, but I kept deflecting her, and eventually she gave up and disappeared. i did that once to a girl I liked but she didn't really like me back at the time I think (because I asked her to homecoming and she said no ) but I didn't really ignore her, it was like I kinda acted like I was too busy and or mad at the same time. Your neediness and fear has pushed her away, which is what most guys do.